Everything You Need To Know About Bridesmaids

They are there to assist, advise and support the bride through the whole operation.

Generally this is a sister of the bride or groom, a close friend or another close female relative.

Some of her duties might include: * Shopping for bridesmaids dresses

• Hosting a bridal shower

• Hosting a bachelorette party

• Helping out-of-town guests with travel arrangements

• Helping with decorations

• Making favors

• Starting the dancing at the reception

• Emotional support

• Receiving guests at the reception

• Addressing invitations

• Helping with seating arrangements

• Assisting with rehearsal dinner

• Assisting bride with her dress and make-up

• Getting the bride anything she needs before going down the aisle-like food or drink

• Using any special talents they may have to help create a beautiful, low cost wedding

The size of your bridal party will depend on the size of the venue and it should also be appropriate to the number of guests you've invited.

In a formal wedding with 200 guests-having 10 brides attendants would be in order. On the other hand, a casual wedding with 50 guests and a small alter would call for 1-3.

But hey, remember this is your day, do what feels right to you.

Responsibilities of the maid-of-honor, the chief unmarried woman attendant of the bride or the matron-of-honor, the chief married woman attendant of the bride might include:

• Holding grooms ring until given to the bride at the ceremony

• Witnessing the signing of the marriage license

• Keeping the brides bouquet during the ceremony

• Giving a toast the bride at the reception mentioning things like: what the bride said about the groom when they first met, a story about growing up together, a funny habit of the bride that the groom may not know, words of advice or wishes for success, happiness or babies etc.

You don't have to accept the invitation to be one of the attendants, but it's hard to say no, unless you have a really good reason. If money is tight-let the bride know, maybe the two of you can brainstorm a way to make it possible.

Some of the expenses you might incur are:

• Gifts-engagement, shower, wedding

• Travel expenses

• Dress/shoes/accessories

• Having your hair and nails done

Be one of the best bridesmaids in the world, the best you can be. No whining and complaining to the bride.

Help make her day as stress free as possible. Be punctual to all the functions, smile, help and socialize.

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