Family Favorites Wedding Reception
Get the family involved with the food for the reception by getting Grandmother to cook the family favorite dish, enough for all of your guests.
Have your Aunts do the same and they will love to be able to showcase their skills and it will make them feel connected to you.
If your Groom has great cooks in his family then call them up and have them prepare something also.
You pick the menu, this is not a pot luck!
The more people that get involved with your wedding the more free time you will have for yourself.
It's kinda a Southern Tradition but it will work for all.